《Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man》是一本由Steve Harvey著作，Amistad出版的Hardcover图书，本书定价：USD 23.99，页数：232，特精心从网络上整理的一些读者的读后感，希望对大家能有帮助。
《Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man》精选点评：
●直男癌作者的视角 目测比ayawawa低十个层级 完全不适合草食男肉食女越来越多的亚洲社会 以及两性平权经济基础类似的现代社会
●You are defined by "who you are", "what you do" and "how much you make".
●直男写的书。看了第一章，说男人的motivation是他们的title、收入和还一个什么，在没有获得之前不会顾及家庭。呵呵。
●知己知彼.....已经无法直视自己了....Damn right....
●至少代表了一部分男人的想法, interesting read, 后半部分还是有些有道理的地方。作者大概是不会和feminist处得来。
●从电影过来了 三个小时左右就翻完了 其实还是有一定参考价值的 尤其是date foreigner的时候 跳过了孩子和结婚那两章 知道自己是个大俗人 并且承认 以后要争取冷静机智且女人一点
《Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man》读后感(一)：无功无过
在吉隆坡机场的书店看到的书 当时没舍得买下 回来买了kindle版来看 看完了 还是适合西方人的逻辑 对中国男人不怎么适用 但有些point还是全世界女人都该知晓的 所以「无功无过 随便看看」
因为中国男人的成长路线和受教育的思路和西方人是不同，所以很多方面不能通用，但是从女性自己角度出发的一些point，还是值得女生借鉴
《Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man》读后感(二)：我爱问Steve
就像连岳善于做情感顾问一样，Steve Harvey也在做着类似的事情，他主持着一档早间广播节目Steve Harvey Morning Show，每天接听听众们讲述真实的故事，然后站在男性的立场进行分析，解答着各种各样两性问题，不过他更为幽默，更为广大美国妇女所熟知。
做了太久的情感顾问之后，他终于觉得有必要出书了，于是今年诞生了这本《像女人一样优雅，像男人一样睿智》，这本书不光名字励志，内容更是循循善诱，浅显易懂，都是一个个真实发生的故事，读来让人觉得这感情的事还真是大同小异，哪怕是到了美国，也还是关于爱与被爱，金星碰见火星，说不完的家长里短。
现在还在看试读版，等哪天关了电脑还想看的时候，就去Amazon买一本回来。
《Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man》读后感(三)：15条原则让你远离不靠谱男
个人感觉这本书男权主义比较强，不过鉴于他只是在抒发男性心理指导女性行为，暂且不过分，毕竟当下社会背景，还是要维护家庭和谐还是有与生俱来的性别角色扮演。
故摘抄大意，疏于整理，只是便于查阅。15个点，充分告诉你女人怎样排除不靠谱男人，还是狠狠心，别骗自己了，该踹就踹吧，省得以后麻烦。
1 Men want the bragging rights- the right to say “i’m number one”（man’s motivation）
Recognizing that he’s On the verge of becoming the man he wants to be
Implement his plan
2 man’s love is diff from woman’s love
·Profess,she is in the man’s plan
A profession is key- you will know if a man is serious about you once he claims you
·Provide
ut some men simply do not have the education, resources, and wherewithal to make an adequate amount of hard cash.
It’s a “get-over” term, ladies- one that has a very legitimate premise, but one that has been wrongly and almost universally applied to any woman who has made clear that she experts her man to fulfill his duty as a man.
·Protect
In sum, you have to stoop heaping your own definition of love on men and recognize that men love differently.
3 The three things every man needs- support, loyalty, and the cookie
·your support
aby, how was your day？ Thank you for making it happen for us. This family needs you and wants you and is happy to have you.
The more you make us feel like we’re special, the more we’ll give in return
·your loyalty
·the cookie（ sex）
4 “we need to talk” and other words that make men run for cover
Honey,look, nothing is really wrong- I just want to tell somebody something--------fix it
5 first things first, he wants to sleep with you
6 sports fish VS keepers: how men distinguish between the marring types and the playthings
A woman who takes good car of herself. Nice
How you respond- the way you control this exchange- will mean all the difference between whether he considers you a throwback or a keeper
7 mama’s boy
His mother refuses to cut the umbilical cord and let him be a man 脐带的
The only thing you have to do is establish the rules, say them out loud early in the relationship, and make sure he sticks to them
8 why men cheat
The playbook -- how to win the game
9 men respect standards- get some
tart by making the man be really clear up front about what he wants out of his life and his relationship with you.
10 The Five Questions Every Woman Should Ask Before She Gets in Too Deep
1 what are your short-term goals？
2 what are your longe-term goals？
3 what are your views on relationships？ A gamut of relationship 全部知识
4 what do you think about me？
5 how do you feel about me？
11 the 90 days rule- getting the respect you deserve
o if the government won’t give a man benefits until he’s been on the job and proven himself. Why, ladies, are you passing out benefits to men before they’ve proven themselves worthy？
How does he react when you tell him you’ve got some problems？
How does your man react under pressure？
How does he react to bad news？
How does he react when he’s told “no”？
12 if he’s meeting the kids after you decide he’s”the one” it’s too late
13 strong, independent, and lonely- women
Appreciating a man, not undermining his confidence, is the best way to get the best out of your guy. And the best way to appreciate him is by being a girl, and especially letting him be a man.
How to be a girl on a date
1 don’t tell him where you’d like to go- tell him the kind of food and atmosphere you enjoy, and then let him figure out a place that he thinks will suit your taste.
2 Don’t tell him you’ll drive—let him get you to where you all need to go.
3 Don’t tell him you want to go dutch—let him pay.
4 Don’t invite him up for a nightcap—kiss him good night and let him figure out what he needs to do to earn the cookie (but not before the ninety-day probation ends).
14 how to get the ring
The setting of the wedding date and standards and enforce them
15 quick answers to the questions you’ve always wanted to ask