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If the child doesn't get love, he overeats
日期:2018-08-08 11:32:46 作者:奥修OSHO 阅读:

If the child doesn't get love, he overeats

  [A sannyasin says she has been sick with hepatitis and other diseases here. She has no sexual energy, and thinks about food all the time. Osho checks her energy.]

  [一个门徒说她有肝炎和其他疾病。她没有性能量,整天满脑子都是吃的。奥修检查他的能量。]

  奥修OSHO: 

  It is a very simple thing -- you just have to see the point. One thing is: whenever you don't allow sex energy to move rightly it starts getting obsessed with food. 

  这很简单——你必须看清重点。一件事情是:每当你不允许性能正确流动时,它就开始沉迷于食物

  Food and sex are polarities; they balance each other. If you have too much sexuality your interest in food will disappear. If you have too much non-sexuality your interest in food will become almost an obsession. 

  食物跟性是两极,它们相互平衡。如果你性欲太多,你对食物的兴趣会消失。如果你太性冷淡,你就会沉迷食物。

  o you cannot do anything directly about your food, and if you try to, you will be constantly in trouble. For a few days you can manage forcibly, but then you will have the problem back again, and it will be back with a vengeance. You will have to work on your sexual energy.

  所以你没办法直接对食物做什么,如果你尝试,你总是会陷入麻烦。刚开始几天你还可以强迫自己,但你的麻烦还会回来,它会回来复仇。你必须处理你的性能量。

  The problem arises because the first experiences of food and love for the child are very deeply associated. He gets food from the mother's breast and love too. When the child gets love he is not worried about milk; the mother has to persuade him. 

  问题之所以出现,是因为对孩子来说,食物跟爱的最初体验是紧密相连的。他从母亲乳房获得食物,也获得爱。如果孩子得到了爱,他就不会担心母乳,母亲必须说服他。

  If the child is not getting love then he does not leave the breast, because he is afraid about the future. He has to drink as much as he can because he cannot be certain when the mother will be available. If the child gets love he is secure; he does not bother. Whenever there is need the mother will be available; he can trust her love. But if the mother is not loving then the child cannot trust; then he has to drink as much as he can. He goes on overeating.

  如果孩子得不到爱,他就离不开乳房,因为他担心未来。他必须尽量喝,因为他不确定母亲什么时候才在。如果孩子得到了爱,他就感到安全,他不在意。一有需要母亲就会在,他能信任她的爱。但是如果母亲不爱,孩子就没办法信任,他必须尽量喝。他总是吃撑了。

  And the same is the situation... you can see: in poor families children will have big stomachs because the food is so scarce that whenever they can get food they overstuff themselves. The richer the family, the smaller will be the stomach of the child. It looks very absurd, because when you see poor people starving, their whole bodies are thin and yet their stomachs are too big. 

  情况如出一辙……你能看到:穷人家的孩子胃大,因为食物很匮乏,每当有吃的他们都会吃撑了。家庭富有,孩子的胃就越小。这看起来很荒唐,因为当你看到忍饥挨饿的穷人,他们身体瘦弱,可他们的胃太大了。

  It doesn't look right, it doesn't look arithmetical. If they are starving then why do they have such big stomachs? Because they are starving they cannot trust tomorrow, so whatsoever they can get, anything they can get, they go on stuffing in. Their stomachs become their storage. 

  这看起来不对,这看起来不合理。如果他们在挨饿,为何他们竟有这么大的胃?因为他们在挨饿,他们没办法信任明天,所以每当他们有吃的,不管啥吃的,他们都会往胃里塞。他们的胃成了食物储藏室。

  o if the child does not get love he becomes interested in food. If he gets love he is not interested in food, or has just a natural interest -- as much as is needed by the body.

  所以如果孩子得不到爱,他就会对食物感兴趣。如果他得到了爱,他就对食物没兴趣,或者兴趣一般——满足身体需要就够了。

  That's what is happening to you: somehow you have been blocking your love energy. That blocked love energy is becoming your interest in food. If you want to change it you will have to move into love a little more, you will have to become more loving. 

  那就是发生在你身上的:在某种程度上,你在阻碍自己爱的能量。那股被阻塞的爱的能量正变成你对食物的兴趣。如果你想改变,你必须多一点进入爱,你必须变得更有爱。

  Love your own body -- begin from there; enjoy your own body. It is a beautiful phenomenon, it is such a gift. Dance, sing, feel and touch your own body.

  爱你的身体——从那里开始,享受你的身体。它很美,它是一个大礼。舞蹈歌唱感受和触摸你的身体。

  The problem is that if you don't love your own body, you will not allow anybody else to love your body. In fact the person who tries to be loving towards you will look ridiculous, foolish, stupid. 

  问题在于,如果你不爱自己的身体,你就不会允许任何人来爱你的身体。事实上,试图爱你的人会显得很荒唐、愚蠢

  ecause you cannot love your body, what is he seeing in you? You don't see anything! Unless you start seeing the beauty of your own body you will not be able to accept somebody else's love. The very idea that he is loving towards you shows that he is stupid and nothing else. So be loving to your body.

  因为你不爱你的身体,他在你身上看到了什么?你什么也看不到!除非你开始看到自己身体的美,否则你没办法接受任何人的爱。他爱你这个想法本身就显得他很蠢,仅此而已。所以爱你的身体。

  And if any opportunity arises where you can be loving, hugging, holding hands, don't miss those opportunities. And you will be surprised: as you start moving into love the food problem will be solved automatically. 

  如果有任何你可以爱、拥抱、握手的机会出现,别错过这些机会。你会惊讶:当你开始进入爱,食物问题就自己解决了。

  To be in love is a great experience and to go on stuffing food is a very miserable experience. Not that food is not beautiful, but food is beautiful only when taken in certain quantities that you can absorb. When you take too much it is nauseating.

  活在爱里是如此美妙的体验,不停的往胃里塞东西是如此令人痛苦经历。不是说食物不美,只有当你摄入一定量时,食物才是美的。当你吃太多,那令人恶心

  This is one thing beautiful about love: love is never too much. Nobody can love to the extreme, nobody; there is no extreme in it. Because when you eat, you stuff things in; when you love, you share, you give. It is an unburdening phenomenon. And the more you give, the more your energy starts flowing. 

  关于爱这一点很美:爱永远不会太过。没人能爱到极致,没人;爱没有极致。因为当你吃,你往胃里塞东西;当你爱,你分享,你付出。那是在卸掉负担。你付出越多,你的能量就越开始流动。

  You become a river, no more a stagnant pool.

  你成了河流,你不再是一个臭水池。

  That's what you have done; that's my feeling about your energy: you have made it a stagnant pool.

  那就是你所做的,那就是我对你能量的感受:你把它变成了臭水池。

  reak the walls! You are unnecessarily missing something beautiful which love and only love can bring, and instead are suffering with this problem of food.

  把墙拆掉!你在浪费爱、也只有爱能带给你的很美的东西,这毫无必要,相对的,你在食物问题上受罪。

  译自:OSHO God’s Got a Thing About you

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