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When I had a good friend's dream, I stopped and chatted with her for a while. My dream told me about her recent troubles and sufferings.
Dream belongs to the fashionable gens, married for eight years, and her husband also is met in the QQ dazzle dance, love each other, and then into the realm of marriage, marriage the first biennial has a very lovely daughter, so the happiness of a family of three was born.
Keep dream is work in a newspaper before marriage, it wasn't long before the dream is pregnant, her husband let her quit the job, the newspaper said he would keep her, keep her whole life, dream ao however of her husband, the meaning of following her husband get a good job quit, she began a housewife after life. Take care of the children, cook, do household chores, washing clothes, so live day after day, is basically around the home, turn around the daughter, she used to like make-up, I don't know when to start has been haven't besmear eyelash creams, tracing a eyebrow, these seemingly very strange, for her before each store on the new clothes, shoes, she will go to visit, try it on, and then not hesitate to buy, from a few when very fashionable, she always to take care of the family and like an old woman. The dream is no longer fashionable, is no longer fashionable, because the dream says: "she spends every penny to ask a husband to want." Think of oneself normally also seldom go out, everyday want to do housework, buy food to take a meal to take a child, don't be lazy to buy some unpractical clothes, jewelry, cosmetics.
I do not know since when, the husband began to arrive early, from the beginning of holding a dream to go out every day in the morning turned into left home very early, from the first time after work every day home eating home-cooked meals dream becomes a curfew. From the beginning of the dream can enjoy the breakfast that the husband makes is also become everyday to have to get up early to make breakfast for the husband, every weekend to accompany the dream window shopping convention also disappeared.
Feel the husband increasingly indifferent to her dream, has lost the original passion, with a woman's sixth sense, dream, said the husband may have other women in the outside, because he husband wash the shirt, white with lip prints on the collar, and there are to the taste of dream allergic to perfume of jasmine, how do you explain all this to!
Finally confirmed, in the dream repeatedly pressed, the husband finally full recruitment.
"I have a woman how, you have the ability, also can go out to seek, afraid you don't have that ability? You are not suitable for my appetite now, I seek fresh, exciting, can't? I make money to give you flowers, to keep you mother and daughter is enough, also think me how, do not be in blessing to do not know blessing."
Dream listened to "pa" a slap in his face, rushed out the door, and came to the Internet cafe, insert the couple had QQ dazzle dance number, remember at the beginning, their sweet love, everything is so vividly, as if yesterday also in dream ears said "I'll to hello, marry me, ok?"
Everything is so incredible, ever so sweet love, what is everlasting and glebe's old, what even if I can't go anywhere, I still take your hand as the treasure of the heart. When it comes to this, the dream laughs.
In China, there are many women, after get married, for the sake of taking care of family, and gave up everything, just because give up her own everything, unconsciously, a cane, and became a man became dependent on men's a parasite. From then on, look at the man's face, good for you, you are lucky, and is bad for you, you can only endure, because left a man lose the ability of life, and society also have their own professional, after all, out of so many years, and there is a saying of good, married women, seventy percent gave birth to the child's women, fifty percent of divorced women middle cut to thirty percent. So it's rare for women to choose a divorce.
Dream adhere to just think, if it did not quit his job, and have their own income, don't have to stay at home all day, like a nanny, can maintain plumpness, continue to be fashionable gens, you do a woman full of charm, no each bought a beautiful dress, a pair of delicate high-heeled shoes, all want to stretch hand to ask a husband for money, there will be the same end?
If you don't have a job, it's easy to be looked down upon by the other party. It's a matter of determination. Don't blame love too fragile. It's just life.
Therefore, women should be independent, and do not lose their original value for anyone. Never be the vine in a man, the parasite.
爱情有着强大的力量，但不应支配你的一举一动。女人切记：不要为别人牺牲自己的幸福。
真正的爱情不会让你在男人和梦想之间做出抉择。一个女人永远不应该为了男人放弃自己的梦想
2、改变自己的信条
每个人都有一套不同的道德观。他应该足够尊重你的选择，即使在某些地方他并不赞同。如果他爱你，不会试着改变你。
3、为他改变自己的外在
只是因为他喜欢超模那样的外表，也不该以此作为让你效仿的理由。如果他让你改变穿衣风格甚至微整形，你不需要理他。你的身体是你自己的，没人能强迫你。如果他不能欣赏你的自然美，就不值得你爱。
4、牺牲自己与闺蜜相处的时间
时间永远不够用，你不能把自己的自由时间完全奉献给男人。你的家人和朋友同样需要你的陪伴，不要忽视他们的需求。
5、假扮自己
不要假装成别人来讨好他，不出于真心的举止只会让他感到奇怪。
6、让自己挨饿
没什么能比健康更重要。你可以减肥，但理由只能是为了成为更好的自己，而不是取悦异性。
7、受他控制
永远不要让他完全控制你的生活。你才是自己人生真正的主宰。
1、姐一直奉信一句格言：人不犯我，我不犯人，人若犯我，礼让三分，人再犯我，斩草除根。
2、有些人确实已经很有钱了，可还是拿着拉菲兑雪碧喝，那不是腔调，那是命苦。
3、你有听说过中国哪个导演拍了烂片出家的？只听说过，拍完电影跟女主角成家的！
4、女人呢，年轻的时候，身边有暖男她一般都不在乎，她们更喜欢那些能征服世界的男人。但她不知道，那些能征服世界的男人也想征服全世界的女人呢！
5、不要怪姐对你狠，姐对自己更狠；如果你敢对姐狠，姐让你知道什么叫狠；但是你要是真的以为姐狠，那你是不知道姐爱的有多深！
6、所以呢，我觉得老年人跳广场舞好，能防骗。什么电话诈骗啊，什么传销啊，什么保险品推销啊，只要音乐一起来，“苍茫的天涯是我的爱”，统统给我一边凉快去。
7、男人就那么点小花招。骗十岁的小姑娘，用糖，骗二十岁的小姑娘，用花，想骗三十岁的，那就只能用心了。
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